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Goldie Oakes

LPC Virginia 19 years of experience

A practical counselor for life transitions

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Goldie Oakes
  • Skills focused
  • Values informed
  • Faith-friendly

About Goldie

Goldie Oakes, LPC, helps people facing big life shifts and painful emotions find steadier footing. She speaks plainly about stress, anxiety, grief, anger, depression, addictions, and relationship struggles. Goldie aims to help people restore daily functioning, reconnect with what matters, and regain motivation for life.

With 19 years in clinical work, Goldie blends practical techniques with a values-informed outlook. She draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Motivational Interviewing to break unhelpful patterns and build new skills. Emotion-focused ideas and mindfulness practices are woven in to help people notice feelings and regulate intense moments.

Goldie often uses reading, journaling, and at-home practice between sessions. Those activities are meant to reinforce new habits and help people test changes in everyday life. She also integrates faith-based reflections when a client prefers that perspective, including prayer or scripture as part of the process.

Sessions tend to focus on concrete steps: identifying problematic thoughts, trying small behavior changes, and tracking progress over time. Goldie supports work on issues like parenting stress, caregiver fatigue, family-of-origin wounds, and coping after a loss or disaster. She also addresses substance use, communication problems, and feelings of emptiness.

People who choose her can expect a straightforward, collaborative approach that combines skill-building with personal reflection. To begin, readers should confirm current session options and scheduling details before booking.

Approaches that guide online sessions

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and responding to the person's experience so they feel understood and can steer sessions toward what matters most. This approach helps when people need space to talk through emotions and decide on next steps.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) breaks problems into thoughts, behaviors, and feelings, and uses straightforward exercises to change unhelpful patterns. CBT is often helpful for anxiety, depression, and managing stress in daily life.

Emotionally-Focused ideas pay attention to patterns in close relationships and how emotions shape interactions, which can be useful for communication and relationship concerns.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to choose methods that match their goals, comfort level, and values. That might mean trying a few techniques and adjusting based on what helps most.

Confirm the available session formats before booking so they fit your routine. Online therapy can make scheduling easier, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time so sessions fit around work, caregiving, or busy days. Ask about specific format options to pick the best match for your schedule and preferences.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issuesCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAntisocial personalityAvoidant personalityCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMood disordersMulticultural concernsParanoiaPhobiasPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

19+ years

Credentials

Virginia

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Goldie usually help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, grief, depression, addictions, anger, self-esteem, relationship and family issues, trauma and abuse, parenting, career changes, compassion fatigue, and coping with life changes.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is practical and collaborative, using Cognitive Behavioral strategies, motivational conversations, mindfulness, and emotionally focused ideas to address feelings and behaviors.

What is her clinical background?

Goldie has 19 years of professional clinical experience working in the mental health field since 2006.

What credentials and location are listed?

She holds the credential Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, and practices in Virginia.

Which languages are supported and can international clients join?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Confirm current session format options with the platform before booking to make sure they match your needs.

How does cost work for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started if I want to work together?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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